Most women have a little trouble figuring this one out.

But if you pay attention to his actions, there may be clues that he’s not just in it for the physical intimacy.

If he’s constantly doing big AND small stuff for you, it’s his way of letting you know about this true feelings.

A lot of guys are more of doers than tellers when it comes to love.

Also, chances are it’s the real deal if he’s taking note of the small details about you and putting them to good use later on.

Maybe he knows how much you’re into badly made horror movies, for instance.

Then he’ll surprise you with a couple of tickets for a midnight screening of that cult classic you were telling him about the other week.

All this means your happiness is important to him…

…and any guy worth being with doesn’t feel 100% like a man if he’s not doing enough to take care of you.

A guy who doesn’t care, won’t bother remembering those vital pieces of information. And he won’t lift a finger to make you happy unless it benefits him in some way.

True Love Sign #8: He’s part of your life – and not just the fun parts

Another way to tell he’s in love with you if he’s going out of his way to be part of your world.

You might notice him trying to find out what you love doing, then tag along even though he’s not into it himself.

He’ll also be more than happy to meet the other people in your life because he wants to know you better.

Being with your friends and seeing you in action helps him understand what makes you tick.

A guy who’s only interested in doing the deed won’t be interested at all in seeing this other side of you.

It doesn’t serve him in any way, and he doesn’t need to take the relationship past sleeping with you.

Fake love crumbles when things get tough. He won’t muster the energy to get to know your passions and interests, and doesn’t care about the people important to you.

Doing this takes time and effort. Whether or not he goes through this trouble is the real yardstick of his feelings for you.

If he’s willing to make sacrifices that he could have very well avoided…

…and he doesn’t stop trying even when things aren’t always great between you…

…then you’d better hold on to him tight.

This points to the fact that he’s tenacious in the face of adversity, which is more than I can say for the Wham-Bam-Thank-You-Ma’am kind of guys out there.

Whether you’ve just been seeing a guy, or you’ve known him for a long time, it’s never a good sign if it just seems like he’s phoning it in.

Maybe he used to show the signs that he’s got a solid commitment to you, but now you’re not so sure about your future with him.

It’s often hard to pinpoint exactly why men pull away all of a sudden.

But you don’t have to panic if your relationship’s going through this phase. There is a way to overcome the wall that men put up when they don’t feel that fire anymore.

What you need to do is understand how men think and get a good grasp of what makes them leave. 

This video explains how to get around the problem of his emotional unavailability, and to make sure he doesn’t ever think of leaving. Why Men Pull Away.

Go ahead and watch this video now to prevent him from rejecting or abandoning you  – CLICK HERE…  

By Slade Shaw
Author of Why Men Pull Away  

“Your body is away from me, but there is a window open from my heart to yours.”

– Rumi

Remember the last time you felt a powerful longing for that special someone?

Whether you’ve only known him for a while, or you’re in a long-term relationship with him…

…if he matters to you, being away from him is painful.

But how do you make him feel the SAME?

Suzanne, a preschool teacher from Sacramento, met Patrick through a mutual friend.

They went out a few times over the last few months, and they seem to be getting along fine. However, something told Suzanne that he’s not that into it as she is.

She shared, “I was always the one who texted him first. It would take him a couple of hours to reply, and it’d be like that the whole day.”

“Every time I’d try and reach out – like sending him a funny picture or video – I wouldn’t get much of a reaction out of him,” Suzanne added.

It was a bit frustrating for her because she really thought Patrick was a great guy, but didn’t feel like he missed Suzanne enough.

And it was mostly Suzanne who made the effort to plan things so they could go out again.

It got to a point where she started to think he was slipping away.

That was when she decided to do something about it.

“If I was going to lose him, I might as well try a few things to see if it would get him back,” Suzanne said.

After she made a few changes, it did make a difference.

Patrick started replying right away, and he was the one who texted first thing in the morning.

If he wasn’t sending Suzanne sweet messages throughout the day, he was making plans to see her.

And when they got together again, he finally told Suzanne what she wanted to hear:

“Hey, I really missed you.”

Are you doing enough?

For a lot of women, everything seems fine and dandy when they’re with their guy.

The tricky part is when they start spending time away from each other. There’s the risk of him drifting off and losing interest.

And the problem is that these women go about it the wrong way. They think that have to pull some attention-grabbing stunt like going on social media and playing the jealousy game.

Chances are he’s not going to fall for the “Look at me with these other guys on Facebook” trick.

It’s going to backfire and it won’t make him think about you more.

A better way is to give him hints and reminders that you’re someone worth thinking about 24/7.

With a little finesse, you can make him long for you like no other woman has.

Here are 7 Great Ways To Make A Man Miss You:

#1: A little info goes a long way

Oversharing is one of the biggest turn-offs for a guy. I can’t tell you how many times women have shot themselves in the foot with this one mistake!

This applies more to someone you’re just getting to know. And if you think he might be the The One, you’ll be tempted to open up to him.

I’ve noticed that women do this to strengthen their bond with a guy as quickly as possible.

It’s a big mistake though, because trying to rush things with a guy emotionally is not a good recipe for romance.

And trying to fast-track that connection with him is likely to freak him out.

Kevin, a lawyer from Florida, once told me, “Everything was going great with this girl Tiffany whom I asked out to dinner. But then she started talking about her exes. I nearly choked on my steak when she told me about…the things she used to do with them. I don’t know what her deal was, and the only reason I didn’t sneak out the bathroom window was because they didn’t have one!”

You’re probably not as explicit as Tiffany when it comes to personal details (I hope!), but you get the idea.

Avoid talking about the touchy, personal areas of your life for now. If ever you wander into that territory, don’t give detailed answers and change the subject.

There’s no need to fudge the facts, but you don’t need to beat him over the head with it, either.

There’s plenty of time for that stuff later on. For now, give him some room to wonder about what makes you tick!

Click here to discover the sure-fire way to make him stay… 

#2: Dress to kill

Of course, you want him to love you for who you are, and not just for what you look like.

If he only liked your body and nothing else, what kind of a relationship would that be?

But having said that, the way you present yourself STILL matters.

I don’t care if you’ve known the guy for 3 weeks or 3 decades. If you stop caring about your looks and all that other basic stuff, it sends the wrong message.

I’ll share a little secret with you – 99% of the men I know don’t want a supermodel for a partner.

They just need to know that she’s not going to trade her flattering outfits for a ratty shirt and sweatpants…

…stop going to the gym…

…or think hygiene is overrated.

I mean, even if someone like Brad Pitt dressed like a slob, you probably wouldn’t like him either, right?

(Ok, maybe that wasn’t the best example…but you know where I’m going with this.)

So, stay on top of your game. Choose the right wardrobe and makeup (as much or as little of it as you need) to underscore your femininity.

Let your clean, fresh appearance do the talking. Care about what you eat and burn those calories.

You don’t need to be perfect (because NO one is), and it’s not a prerequisite for making him miss you.

The point is to look good and more importantly, FEEL GOOD about yourself.

He’ll feel that confidence radiating from your whole body. And THAT’S what will keep him coming back for more.

#3: Hold your horses

As much as you want him to want you, you should always keep the long game in mind.

As we talked about earlier, a little intrigue is healthy in a relationship.

It makes him want to pursue you, and put in the work to win you over.

Men absolutely love a woman who’s up for a challenge. There’s a lot at stake when it comes to dating, but you still need to make it a FUN game for him.

Don’t give him what he wants all the time, and don’t smother him with sweetness.

Maybe on some days you’re extra affectionate (whether it’s face-to-face or through texts/emails/etc.)…

…then other times, you’re very friendly BUT platonic towards him.

Just when he thinks, “I’ve got this in the bag”, you come out of nowhere and play mental judo with him.

Oh, how guys love/hate this one!

Trust me, as a guy, I love being TEASED.

Bear in mind however, he needs to know he’s still in the game and that this will eventually lead somewhere.

Keep it light, playful and good-natured so that he sticks around and thinks about you.

#4: Get a life

An awesome one, that is.

I don’t know about other guys, but I’m not sure how to feel about a woman who’s obviously not doing much aside from waiting for me to call her.

Men actually don’t like it when you’re TOO available for them.

It’s kind of like playing chess with someone…

How would you feel if the other person suddenly yelled out, “Checkmate, you got me!” even before you made the first move?

It wouldn’t be any fun, right?

Again, it’s all about CHALLENGE.

And living a happening, interesting life is one way to make your guy feel the bittersweet pain of your absence.

Don’t go on the ol’ social media machine and post pictures of you at a party…

…while you’re spending your free time watching “Sex and the City” reruns in bed with a bag of chips.

(Do women actually do that? If not, just insert your sedentary activity of choice.)

Live your life from a genuine place and invest your time in doing things that help you GROW.

And sometimes, that means you’ll have to hold off on seeing him (which is way different from dropping off the face of the earth) because you’ve already made plans before he asked you.

Women who are totally engaged with their lives effortlessly project a grounded, mature (read: NOT boring), yet fascinating personality.

When he sees how much fun you’re having from doing the things you’re passionate about…

…he’ll want to gatecrash the party and get in on the action!

He’ll be like, “She looks cool. I can totally see myself hanging out with her. Bet she’s amazing in bed, too.”

(Whoops, did I just say that? But it’s true...)

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#5: Positivity breeds positivity

Fun has been a recurring theme in this article, and for good reason.

Men don’t want to be around someone who brings down their energy. We’re driven, competitive, and we like people who lift us up.

And it’s the same with a romantic partner: no one likes a party pooper.

Look, I know you can’t be Pollyanna and spout platitudes of sunshine and happiness all the time. We all have our bad days.

Nevertheless, it’s important to him that you have a generally positive attitude – and not walk around with a dark cloud hanging over your head.

Here are a few questions to ask yourself:

– “Do I find myself complaining a lot? Do I rant on social media every time something bad happens – or comment on every piece of bad news out there?”

– “When I’m with my guy, do I talk crap about my co-workers, relatives and friends?”

– “Do I try to see the best in people and situations? Or do I tend to assume the opposite?”

I’m not saying that you’re a miserable person, but it does help to do a little self-reflection and awareness – especially when you’re around your guy.

#6: Practice radio silence every now and then

Nope, I don’t mean cutting off all contact and see how he reacts.

Playing hard to get to an extent is fine, but it isn’t about manipulating his emotions or making him feel bad.

So all I’m asking is that you don’t broadcast every single thing you’re doing.

He doesn’t need to know what you’re having for lunch, or how Linda from Marketing hogged the floor during the office meeting.

Social networking sites are a bit to blame because it adds to the “Gimme my 15 minutes” culture.

And technology in general is making it way TOO easy for us to bombard other people with the mundane aspects of our lives.

This special guy of yours isn’t your best friend or mother. He’s perfectly fine wondering a little what you’re up to.

In fact, it’s the perfect way to avoid making him feel crowded. Give him the headspace to think about you, rather than trying too hard to insert yourself in his thoughts.

#7: Finish STRONG

Ever heard the expression “stick the landing”?

It’s when an athlete finishes a move in style (like in gymnastics) and strikes a cool pose – often to thunderous applause.

In dating, you can do the same and leave a strong impression in a guy’s mind. That way, he’ll be counting the minutes until he sees you again.

Here are a few ways to do this:

• Don’t let the date go and on. Eventually, the energy level will go down and that’s not the best time to say your goodbyes. Have a set time, and let him know you have to be up early for work tomorrow.

• So, that means you’ll need to make him feel great while he’s with you. Don’t make the conversation all about you, give him a chance to share his stories, and tell your own (positive and funny ones work best).

• Touch his arm, punch him playfully on the shoulder or mess up his hair (if the situation allows it). Physical cues of attraction are key.

After your date, he’ll keep replaying that wonderful experience in his head over and over again.

Remember when Netflix wasn’t a thing yet and you had to wait a whole week to see the next episode?

I kinda miss that, and I actually liked cliffhangers because it gave me something to look forward to.

Plus, it was nice to be able to digest what I just watched. Nowadays, we’re overindulging ourselves by binge-watching the whole thing till our eyes glaze over.

In the same way, you’ve got to pace yourself so he doesn’t get sick of you. That’s the whole point of the game.

But if you’ve been doing most of what we’ve just talked about and he’s STILL pulling away…

…there might be something more serious going on here.

A lot of women struggle with this problem, and they’re often clueless why they can’t stop their man from slipping through their fingers.

However, you don’t have to feel powerless about this situation.

There’s still hope and you can start by learning about Why Men Pull Away in this shocking video:

Click HERE now to keep him from leaving and win his heart back for good… 

By Slade Shaw
Author of Why Men Pull Away 

“If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.” – Oprah Winfrey

In our hyperconnected world, people tend to throw around words that don’t hold much weight.

With social media in particular, a lot of folks often post stuff that doesn’t have much in the way of value.

They’re either superficial (like cat videos or memes), or spout empty platitudes that pay lip service.

And when it comes to relationships – or ones that have yet to get off the ground – people often say things they don’t necessarily mean.

A guy might tell you that he’s in love with you, but his actions don’t quite match up to his words. Or he could be, in fact, falling hard for you, but can’t find the words to say it.

Why is reading a guy’s signs such a tricky business?

Why can’t he just drop the whole mixed signals act and be straight up with how he really feels about you?

You’ve probably met and dated a handful guys, so you know what I’m talking about.

And I can totally understand if you’re feeling a little jaded by men who can’t seem to get it together and be honest about their feelings.

Well, let me help you with that and give you the REAL signs that a guy’s super serious about you – and worth waiting for.

First, a Warning

Ok, so today you’re going to find out if a guy loves you – or if you should move on…

…but let me get something important out of the way real quick.

You see, women talk about mixed signals all the time when they’re trying to figure out where they stand with a Potential Someone.

But here’s what I always tell them: there’s NOTHING “mixed” about a guy’s signals.

Everything he does – and doesn’t do – is a clear indication of what’s really going on in that head of his.

And a lot of times, his words won’t have as much weight as his ACTIONS.

When the connection is there, and you already know you’re bonkers for each other, saying those three words is just icing on the cake.

It’s wonderful to hear him drop the “L” word on you – but they’ll only confirm what your HEART already knew long before.

So now you’re probably telling me, “What do you think I am, some sort of psychic?”

“Surely you don’t expect me to open his mind like a book and ‘already know’ before he opens his mouth?”

I hear you – and that’s why it’s time to give you the Top 10 Ways To Tell He’s Got It Bad For You:

#1: He’ll Drop Clues

Relax, you don’t have to be Sherlock Holmes to crack the mystery of his heart.

Most guys are not going to tell you about his feelings upfront (surprise, surprise), but it’s not because they’re trying to toy with your emotions.

It’s more of the fact that a lot of men aren’t big on expressing themselves emotionally.

I know a lot of guys who have trouble with this. They were raised to think that opening up and talking about this stuff isn’t really a useful (or masculine) trait to have.

And sadly, it’s made it hard for them to talk about something as difficult as feelings…

…which makes professing their LOVE for you an even BIGGER challenge.

But nonetheless, it’s not that hard to decode the real meaning behind his somewhat cryptic statements.

You just need to ask yourself a couple of important questions – and the answer will reveal itself soon enough:

• When he talks to me, does he make me feel I’m important to him? (e.g. “Hey, I found that vintage 80s Rainbow Brite lunch box you were looking for…it was on this guy’s nostalgia collector’s blog. I’ll send you the link…you owe me a coffee!”)
• Is he implying that he’s only interested in ME – and no one else? (e.g. “Man, working at the office can be such a drag…especially those noisy girls over at marketing with their faces buried in their Instagram pages. This place could use someone cool like you J”)

It’s likely he’ll try to mask it with humor or act nonchalant about it.

But if there’s that unmistakable spark of affection beneath it, he’s probably not putting you in the Friend Zone anytime soon.

Click here to discover the sure-fire way to make him stay… 

#2: He’s got THAT look

Yup, the eyes are windows to the soul and all that.

But don’t get all clinical and start measuring the diameter of his pupils. That would be weird…

Instead, think about the way he looks at you.

Is he mesmerized by your mere presence?

His eyes should be telling you, “You’re too good to be real…yet here you are.”

And is he constantly stealing glances at you? When you sneak a peek at your guy, do you catch him staring at you – then quickly looking away?

Guys are visual creatures, as the saying goes. If he likes what he sees, he’ll have a hard time tearing his eyes away.

#3: He has ZERO excuses

A guy in love isn’t going to let his work or any other stuff he has going on to get in the way of seeing you.

No matter how full his plate gets, he’ll always squeeze in some “we time” with you. You won’t hear him making half-baked excuses that “things are crazy at work” or “I’m kind of busy right now.”

That’s the thing about a man who’s into you: he’ll move mountains to clear space in his week for you, and it SHOWS.

And even if he’s super busy at the moment, he’ll always let you know what’s going on with him.

He’ll never make you feel like he’s gone off the grid and keep you updated when he can see you again.

#4: He keeps it REAL with you

You know what I mean by this if you’ve ever had a close friend who “tells it like it is”…

…and doesn’t tell you what you want to hear, but what you NEED to hear.

When a guy truly loves you, he understands what makes you tick.

He knows BOTH your great and not-so-great qualities…and yet he STILL thinks you’re the greatest person he’s met.

And if he sees that you’re not being the best you can be, this guy won’t be afraid to point it out.

But he’s not going to be condescending or a jerk about it. He’ll be more likely to tease you, bust your chops and give you “a hard time” rather than actually making you feel bad.

#5: His time is YOUR time

I mentioned early that it’s a good sign when he makes you feel important. Another part of that is him going out of his way to do stuff together with you.

This goes beyond moving important stuff in his calendar to see you. 

The operative word here is “together”.

If he’s trying to create a DEEPER bond by way of a regular ROUTINE, that’s something you shouldn’t ignore.

Maybe he’s taking the initiative to set up weekly activities like weekend coffee at his favorite hangout, or taking you along to his book club meeting to see if you might dig it.

This is him moving from “single mode” to a I-think-I-want-to-get -serious-with-this-girl mindset.

Discover Why Men Pull Away – and make sure he’ll NEVER leave… 

#6: He totally puts you at ease

When you don’t know where you stand with someone, the way he acts and talks puts you on edge. You can’t put your finger on it, but you know he’s the flaky type.

Not with this guy. Everything he says and does points to the fact that he’s not going anywhere.

There’s nothing ambiguous about him, especially with the way he makes you feel.

Whether it’s his choice of words (as indirect as they may be), his body language or the general vibe he gives off…

…you just know he wants to be on board – no ifs, ands or buts about it.

#7: He knows it’s not always about him

We all have a tendency to be a little self-centered from time to time, and that’s ok.

But if a guy who loves you, you can see how much he’s willing to meet you halfway with a lot of things.

For instance, he’s not going to insist on eating at that new Asian seafood restaurant that’s been getting good Yelp reviews if you’re not feeling it.

And even though he’s not a Greek cuisine kind of guy, he’s cool about eating there because your preferences matter to him.

That’s just the kind of man he is.

He knows relationships are a matter of give and take, which is why you’ve got as much say in it as he does.

#8: He’s always trying to make you happy

You probably don’t want an overeager puppy of a guy waiting on hand and foot for your every need – that would be a little scary…

But you do want someone who’s naturally attuned to your inner state and knows when something’s off.

You might not even say anything, but he knows when to swoop in and take action.

He’ll ask if you want anything when he goes on a coffee run, offer you a ride to work before running his own errands, or even organize your DVD collection alphabetically.

Whatever it is, he’s working overtime to make sure everything’s fine and dandy in your world.

If a man’s in love, he LOVES knowing he gets to take care of you in the way he knows how.

#9: The details matter to him

John Gottman, founder of the Gottman Institute and author of “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work”, has literally spent decades observing couples up close to understand how relationships work.

In his research, he’s found that the strongest couples make an effort to know each other’s inner worlds.

He calls this as having “Love Maps”, which is basically a detailed knowledge of what’s going on with your partner.

And it’s easy to tell when a guy is trying to create his love map for you, whether you’ve known him for years or just getting to know him.

According to Gottman, if he cares enough to know the “little” things about you, it’s a sign of a healthy relationship.

This includes stuff like your favorite place to eat, your greatest rival at work, your idea of the perfect job, your biggest dream, your best friends and so on.

When you tell him about these things, naturally picks up on these little bits and pieces and saves them for future reference. He does this because he knows it makes up the amazing and unique person you are.

#10: He’s in it for the long haul

Does your man have a certain tenacity to him? Is he the type who doesn’t give up when he hits a roadblock in life?

Would you even say he’s a little stubborn?

It’s easy to brush this off as a part of his masculine identity, but it may run deeper than you think.

This quality could also be a promising sign if it carries over into the way he deals with you, and your relationship.

You might have some past issues or baggage you’ve picked up from your ex…

…or your differences with your guy are starting to bubble to the surface…

…or maybe he’s going through some of his own stuff while trying to spend time with you.

These challenges are totally par for the course for any relationship.

So if these things don’t phase him – and he’s more than willing to power through them – well then, you’ve got a keeper on your hands!

Now, if you’re seeing a couple of these signs in him, he might just be a really swell guy.

It could be that he’s awesome to everyone and only sees you as one of his friends.

However, if he’s checking off MOST of those boxes (like six or more), then you should be seriously thinking about your future with him…

…because he’s probably thinking THAT way about you.

Then there’s the other possibility that you’re not seeing any of these. There might be moments when it might seem like there’s a glimmer of hope, but it’s very faint.

Most of the time, he’s acting lukewarm towards you at best. If that’s the case, DON’T throw in the towel just yet!

Some men need a little more gentle prodding and encouragement than others.

If your gut is telling you there’s a connection between you and Mr. Slightly Dense – and you’re worried he might PULL AWAY for good…

…then it’s time to seal the deal before he leaves forever:

Check out this free video where I break down exactly what makes men LOSE INTEREST – Click here now!

This is your chance to empower yourself with the knowledge and skills to pull yourself out of the Friend Zone, and into his heart – watch my presentation right here. 

By Slade Shaw
Author of Why Men Pull Away 

 “I once had a thousand desires. But in my one desire to know you, all else melted away.”

– Rumi

Rita, a massage therapist from San Diego, was fresh from a breakup when she met Henry.

Her ex walked out on her without warning after five whole years of being together. So, she was keen on starting over with her new guy.

She’d only been seeing Henry for a couple of months, but she knew he was different from the guys she’d been seeing during the short time she became single.

Several dates later, everything was going great…

…until, well, they weren’t.

Henry was super affectionate and constantly updating Rita with what he was up to. If he wasn’t sending funny messages throughout the day, he’d fire off a quirky picture with a silly caption.

But then the communication slowed down to the point Rita had to text him a few times before he’d send a half-hearted reply. She practically had to beg him to make plans before they could go out again.

Henry’s behavior left Rita scratching her head in confusion. What made matters worse that her old fears of being left hanging in the air started to bubble to the surface.

She thought to herself, “Who is this guy texting me lukewarm ‘ok’s…and what has he done with the real Henry?”

How to Keep That Spark Burning

It’s pretty ironic that someone who has a job like Rita’s would have a hard time keeping a guy’s interest, isn’t it?

Ok, kidding aside, there are some things a woman can do to make sure her guy doesn’t ever get bored or think about leaving.

And most women think that he needs to feel a certain way all the time, like being head over heels IN LOVE 24/7.

But the truth is that romantic love ebbs and flows over time. Emotions (and people) evolve in a relationship, and it’s not about constantly being in a lovestruck state for years and years.

Those rose-colored glasses will come off at one point, and a deeper, more mature kind love will blossom in your relationship.

You can help that natural process move along if you give him the signs that you’re a solid partner.

And that starts with creating a stable, grounded relationship that can get through the roughest patches and stay generally positive throughout.

If this climate exists between you two, he’ll stick around no matter how long (or short) you’ve been together.

You just need to cultivate the right habits to make this happen:

#1: Make him work for it

You see, the hottest relationships are all about push and pull. This is a dynamic where a person pushes their partner into making them feel attractive, desired and the most amazing person they’ve met.

Then the person doing the pushing withdraws a bit – or pulls away – so that they reverse roles with their partner. This way, the hunter becomes the hunted.

Lather, rinse, repeat.

Sometimes, you might push too hard that your guy feels smothered. Or he might give up and lose interest if you play “hard to get” too much.

So, it’s a rather delicate balance to achieve. But when it’s done right, it’s tons of FUN.

Here are a few ways to create this dynamic:

• Don’t be available ALL the time. Keep your schedule balanced and keep doing all the stuff that keeps you happy, fulfilled, refreshed and revitalized.

• Have a hobby or passion that doesn’t necessarily pay the bills, but makes you, YOU. Men are interested in a woman who makes it a point to be interesting. This works great because it gives you an additional sense of purpose while effortlessly impressing your guy in the process.

• Let your guy DO his own stuff, too. If he says he’s going fishing with the boys or anything else that involves hanging out with them, LET HIM. This sounds like common sense…that is, until the neediness monster takes over. Don’t drop by with a pizza to “see how he’s doing”, or bombard him with a bunch of texts asking him to check in with you. All guys in a relationship need to feel free – within a reasonable level, of course.

• Introduce a little tension. Tease him a bit and be playful. Bust his chops every now and then and give him a hard time like his pals do. In some ways, he’s still that kid at the playground trying to catch a girl’s attention by poking fun at her and launching spitballs or whatever. So flirting with him flips the script, keeps him on his toes and hot on your trail.

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#2: Be his number one fan

If you want your man to stay in the game, take the initiative by setting the bar.

Show him the same behavior you’d like to see from him. Having his back is a good way to do that.

A guy needs to know that you appreciate and cherish who he is now, and who he’s capable of being in the future. This makes him feel accepted and secure in the knowledge that you’re rooting for him.

That means he doesn’t have to hold back some part of himself because he has no reason to. He knows he can be himself, including being vulnerable around you.

And when he can let his guard down with you, it’s a huge sign of TRUST, which is the building block of any successful relationship.

#3: Build those inner roads

A guy is more likely to stay when his woman knows how to make him feel connected to her.

You can do this by having a good layout of his world. There are a lot of things that occupy his thoughts and make up who he is.

So the more you’re aware of this, the more he’ll know that you care about him as a WHOLE.

Sad to say, but a lot of men bail because they feel their partner is more concerned about filling THAT role in her life, rather than seeing them as a person.

That said, try to familiarize yourself with the following:

• Who’s the biggest person giving him a hard time at work?
• Who are his closest friends?
• Who were his heroes growing up?
• What’s the one thing keeping him up at night?
• What’s his greatest fear?
• What are the things he hasn’t accomplished yet, and would like to do in the next five years?
• If money wasn’t a thing, what would be the perfect job for him?

#4: Make it OK for him to disagree with you

Oftentimes a guy is afraid that he can’t be honest about his thoughts or opinions with his girl.

He’s worried she’s going to freak out or get into a screaming argument about it.

(Most of the time, in that order.)

Worse, a lot of men have been burned by past partners who tell them it’s ok to be honest…but proceed with said behavior.

To a guy, that’s like asking him to walk through a door…

…with Jason from Friday the 13^th waiting with a chainsaw on the other side.

Admittedly, it takes a certain level of maturity to get to a place where you can accept your differences without attacking each other.

And to be perfectly honest, guys are also guilty of this one, too. But to them though, this is a particularly sore spot.

So, if you’re able to handle his opinions and not fly off the handle, he’ll feel more safe around you.

#5: Tune into his needs

“Well, wait a minute,” you might say. “What about MY needs? Do you expect me to live to please him? Isn’t that one-sided??”

Listen, I get you. No one in their right mind would expect to do ALL the work while the other person sits back and eats their proverbial cake.

If he’s self-centered and makes the relationship all about him, you shouldn’t waste your time on that kind of man. Fair enough, right?

But if you’re with a swell guy (and I’m guessing that he is), your happiness is on his priority list. It’s in every decent guy’s DNA to make sure of that.

And going back to what I said before about setting the bar, a man also loves a woman who can meet him halfway on this.

So build on the habit of getting to know him better, then use that knowledge to give him what he needs.

When you have a good grasp of what he likes and doesn’t like, it’s easy to do little things that make him feel special and valued.

Stuff like his favorite movies, top food choices, interests and hobbies will give you a good idea of the things you can do for him.

The more personalized your acts of kindness are, the bigger effect they’ll have on your man.

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#6: Don’t neglect yourself 

I said earlier that you shouldn’t let your passions, social life and career slide because they make you the woman he loves.

And the other side of that coin is taking care of yourself on a more basic level – mainly your looks and well-being.

Now, I’m not saying he shouldn’t do the same…

…I just mean that you should do your part no matter what.

Again, it’s on him if he’s not meeting you halfway.

But here’s the thing: men are NOT after perfection or supermodel-like features in a long-term partner. Deep inside, they know that only gets your foot in the door.

In the bigger scheme of things, he just wants to know you’re making the EFFORT.

That’s it.

He just needs to know you care about looking good around him, and caring about yourself in general.

So, that means being on top of the big three: Fitness, Health and Fashion.

Look at it this way – you’re going to have to do this whether you’re single or in a relationship.

So it’s better to be up to scratch on this stuff – and get a serious partner out of it in the process!

#7: Keep him busy in the bedroom

Of course I’m going to talk about this. I might sound a little harsh about this, but the sexual component is a non-negotiable in your relationship.

Otherwise, you might end up with a good friend instead of a romantic partner.

So, make him feel like he’s the hottest guy you’ve met.

He knows full well he’s no Brad Pitt (but good on you if he does look like him), but it still matters to him that you DESIRE him that way.

Men want to be WANTED, just like you do. And when you only have eyes for each other – he won’t look elsewhere.     

For starters, don’t be afraid to get tactile with him even when you’re not doing the deed. Hold his hand in public, touch his arm often and give him a kiss before parting ways.

As for the main event, communicate your desires to him when you’re in the heat of the moment.

Tell him when he’s doing it right, get a bit vocal and compliment him on his masculinity.

As far as the bigger picture’s concerned, guys aren’t after the perfect partner or relationship.

They’re more interested in someone who’s just as on board as they are – and more importantly, reassures them that they’re committing to the RIGHT girl.

Once your guy knows he’s making the right choice by being with you, you won’t have to worry about where you stand with him.

But if you’re doing everything possible to keep your man interested and it STILL seems like he’s slipping away, you shouldn’t blame yourself.

Every guy is different, and he has his reasons for withdrawing that have nothing to do with you.

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